August 17, 2018 - Suggested Reading Matthew 19 for Aug 19th’s message on Matthew 5:21-32 in our summer worship service at 10am

“The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”

Matthew 19:10 (NIV) 

It is wise of us to always be observant while reading Scripture, and observance will pay out great rewards in this chapter if we apply ourselves.

Notice first that this section on divorce follows our Lord’s teaching in chapter 18 on the need for us to forgive one another from our hearts - could there be a connection between unforgiveness
and divorce?

Notice that Matthew 19 is made up of 3 interactions between Jesus and people, 2 similar interactions separated by 1 distinct interaction and yet His disciples are at odds with His approach
in each interaction.

Notice in verses 13 and 14 that the disciples had a different attitude to
little children than our Lord Jesus.

Notice in verses 10 thru 12 that the disciples had a different attitude towards marriage than our
Lord Jesus.

Notice in verse 25 thru 30 that the disciples had a different attitude towards riches and entering the kingdom than our Lord Jesus.

Notice the similarity between the Pharisee’s test and the rich young man’s questions, different intentions, but similar questions in the sense that both questions are centered on righteousness with God. The Pharisees wanted to know the Law – what was legal, and the rich man wanted to know what he should DO to get to heaven.

We should notice Jesus’ answers, how He skillfully and graciously turns the questioners’ attention to their own heart issue, and we should not miss that the questioners are on the 2 big topics of sex and money. These are the big heart issues of us all- just look at the news, think about your own family, and think about yourself.

Don’t be surprised at the various ways people understand this chapter, for it is clear that the church fathers were confused, so it is hardly surprising that we who follow them would have less confusion. But friend, no matter how you understand our Lord’s answers, imitate the behaviour of the children, this is the only way we find grace. Don’t come testing Christ, and don’t come asking “What should I do”- come as a little child, humble, meek, seeking Christ’s Presence, and He will bless you.